Let love be real,
in giving & receiving,
without the need to manage and to own.

A haven free, from posing & pretending,
where every weakness may be safely known.

Church was good today lah.
I sat with Jeremy, Inez & Chloe
and then Shalom sat behind me.

I was practically nodding off to sleep lah
& Chloe wasn't that good either
cause she was messaging away, NON STOP.

But when Auntie Dianna talked about some story she read in a book,
THE SURGEON'S HEART,
it was so touching i just had no choice but to hear.

The story goes like this:

there was this man who lost his parents in a burning house,
he tried to go in and save them, but he couldn't
and the ordeal really scarred him physically and psychologically,
permanently.
He would never look the same again.
He told himself that his scarred looks was a punishment
because he failed to save his parents.

So, after that incident,
he totally detached himself from the world,
locking himself in the room day and night,
not eating, not doing anything,
& his wife was practically trying to reach out to him,
knocking and crying at his door unfruitfully.

A few days later,
she paid a plastic surgeon a visit.
She told him about her story,
and the surgeon expected her to ask him to fix her husband,
but instead, the wife told the surgeon to destroy her face;
to make it as hideous as he could,
so she would be as disfigured as her husband,
in the hopes of being able to infuse her life into his.

The surgeon was rendered speechless for a few seconds,
but he told her that he couldn't accede to her request,
but he'll talk to the husband.

The next day, both of them went to the house
and the surgeon stood outside the door and talked to the husband.
He told him of his wife's love for him,
and how much she would do for him;
even to the extend of asking for her face to be permanently disfigured.

After a moment of silence,
the guy came out of the room in tears
& he hugged his wife.

The main point of this story is perhaps,
to show the ultimate love;
sacrifice.

A love that would sacrifice anything,
is then,
true love.

( thomas, please take note! hahaha =p )

Alright man,
after church i ate with chloe, vanessa & jeremy at cartel
then to coffee bean for drinks : D

Then video ezy-ed for a while
before cabbing down to bishan to meet Cheryl : D

Then we walked around for a while
and drank drinks at hagen dagz
before going down to
kovan to meet Thomas
then we went to bowl : D

NOW I GOT PICTURES!!! : D

Oh then i just came back from paragon.
Went to the Singapore Airlines office to collect air tickets
for tomorrow : D

Flight Details

Close

SQ860

(B777-300)

SQ860

SIN 08:30

HKG 12:15

Travel Time
Singapore Changi – Hong Kong Intl.	03:45
Total	03:45

Be back on tuesday! : D

PHOTOS!!! : D

Thomas drinking barley & watching cheryl bowl : D
THOMAS JUST ROLLED HIS BALL INTO THE DRAIN : D
MY BLACK JEANS SO NICE,
CHERYL'S BLUE JEANS SO UGLY.
The monkey who is fat and bowls very well : D
Some random guy. =/
CHERYL: "I can bowl damn well."
MY NAME IS THOMAS.
Mr stone & Mr smiley : D
The shoes really dont go well with Raoul shirt and Prada jeans!
: D
CHERYL'S BALL GOING IN THE DRAINNN.
LOOOK AT THE LEFT : D
THE NICE HOTDOG OMELETTE : D
Watch the PRO ISAAC LOH roll the ball nicely : D
Thomas tried to shadow me and then,
he tripped on my leg on the left side : D
ISAAC LOH & CHERYL WONG : D
THE LANES VERY NICE : D
Thomas preparing to roll the ball!
Thomas rolling the ball now.
Cheryl so pro : D
OUR THIRD GAME : D
SEE, C = 114.
I = 159.
2nd game =/
T = 55
I = 128
C = 142 +
2nd game.
T = 44 +
I = 81 +++
C = 51 ++
The colours of the balls : D
Sooo nice : D
I love the balls!

Morning breakfast at cartel : D
Ultimate delight.
Easter's bulletin : D
FORGIVEN.
The double 9s that made money for me : D
CHLOE LOOKS TROUBLED.
Gambling : D hahaha.

Vanessa looks weird : D
Chloe 's the gambling lord.
Jeremy's looks weird.
Chloe looks pretty here : D

: D

Conferencing now : D
Thomas/Aixing/Jinhui/Cheryl & me : D


Let love be real,
with no manipulation,
no secret wish to harness or control.

Let us accept each other's incompleteness,
& share the joy of learning to be whole.